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Friday, September 27, 2013

"I'm dreaming of a white Christmas. . . ."

Dear Readers,

I know what you're thinking.... "CHRISTMAS?!" But, yes, that's what I said- CHRISTMAS!! :D I absolutely adore Christmas!! In our family- it's the biggest, most special time of the year. (Followed by the Fourth of July for a close second; but that's another post.) Anyway, our family always goes all out at Christmas. (Not in money and gifts, necessarily, but in traditions, decorations, food, activities, ect.) And I love it so much that I always get this "Christmas itch" right about the end of September/beginning of October. (For instance, right now I'm listening to Bing Crosby's dreamy voice sing White Christmas. [Which, by the way, was totally coincidence.])

Now that it's the end of September- I'm working on making Christmas presents. Whew...I got a bit of a late start to be making presents. Yarn, material, crochet hooks, knitting needles, and all sorts of items of that nature are scattered across my room. Not to mention, I'm about to start my senior Home-Ec project. (My mother said she'd give me a Home-Ec credit if I did a senior project.) So I'm also getting "geared up" to make a 50's style dress. Lots of work there....

But back to the topic- Christmas presents. (Forgive the ADD rabbit trail there.) I certainly hope I haven't
bitten off more than I can chew- I have a way of doing that. Hahaha. I'm making afghans and dish cloths and scarves and toboggans and other things that I can't put on here due to the eyes that read this blog. I'm also writing some Christmas presents. But I can't go anymore into that either. ;) The bottom line is, creativity takes a long time! ...And I really hope I have enough. Then again, time seems to be something that I have less and less of lately. :P But! I shall persevere and try to get it all done!

I'm also trying to revive the Miller Homestead tradition of sending a picture and letter from the family to our friends and family. But I'm beginning to see why it got to be too much for my mother to do when I was little. We know entirely too many people....I'm totally serious here! When you're parents have been married for 28 years, moved over 25 times, in 5 different states, and it's all been ministry related (plus the fact that my parents are extremely outgoing and have always been super popular)- that adds up to a lot of people! Not to mention all the close ministry friends we have overseas, whether they be missionaries or actually from that country, are causing me a lot of troubles with international mail. I haven't done it one time, and I'm already considering giving up. :P But whether I do that all depends on postage prices. (They're ridiculous these days!)

Also, for the first time....EVER.....I don't know what I'm going to do for my parents for Christmas. I usually have it all planned back in June/July...but this year I'm just stumped! I must think harder about this. ::makes note to self::

As Christmas approaches I'll share some of our family traditions and recipes. Perhaps, you will like some of them and adopt them for your very own. :)

The Holiday season is quickly drawing near. My mind dwells on the Christmas memories of my childhood, when the entire family lived close to my grandparents and everyone was coming and going constantly. Though I love where we live now, my heart is slightly saddened by the thought of the difference in this year- the distance and the fact that this will, most likely, be my last Christmas- full time living at home. For that reason, it is my goal to make this the most memorable Christmas of my life!

Once again as in olden days/ Happy golden days of yore/ Faithful friends who are dear to us. Will be near to us once more/ Someday soon, we all will be together/ If the Fates allow/ Until then, we'll just have to muddle through somehow/ So have yourself a merry little Christmas now. 

Always in His Arms,
-Cayla

Friday, August 23, 2013

Thoughts on the End of the Beginning. . . .

Dear Readers,

Two days ago I started my first day of my senior year. It's incredibly hard to believe. It's completely surreal. Where did the time go? As cliche as it sounds- time has flown. Though it's something one hears all the time, as a child you think you're never going to "grow up" and that you will be attending school for the rest. of. your. life. Your parents always tell you to just trust them but time will fly by faster than you want it to fly. Yet we all have internally "rolled our eyes" and thought yeah right. Despite the fact that I was one of those "internal-eye-rollers," they were absolutely right...

I can't believe that this is the beginning of the end. My best friend and I were discussing it, last week. She reminded me of one very important fact that I keep trying to remind myself. She said: "Cayla remember that it isn't the end of everything good. It's just the beginning of something greater." I keep reminding myself of that, this week. And I have to say, it's made me feel so much better! I've been so much more peaceful. I have decided that I'm going to try to resist the urge of saying "I wish I could just hurry up and get to college" OR "Man, I wish I could go back and do it all over again."

God has placed me in the season I'm in, and when I'm in it, for a reason. I need to learn to enjoy the time I'm in and use it to the best of my ability to glorify Him. So this week my challenge has been resisting impatience to speed into the future and/or being melancholy about "old times." In summary- I'm trying to be less melodramatic. ;)

I know what you're thinking.... How have you succeeded? Wellllll.....good intentions do not necessarily mean effective actions. :P But the will power is there. I'm trying with all my might to be content and work hard.

The bane in my good intentions has been stress and fear of the future. Fear is a direct lack of faith. I have to say, I've been greatly convicted over it the past few weeks. I seem to be constantly worrying about what college I'm supposed to attend, where I'm supposed to go, and how I'm going to pay for my education. It is ever present in my mind. Yet, this week I was told by another best friend to take a step back and examine the eternal consequences of the decisions I'm faced with. He said: "Lately however, I've gained some fortitude by realizing the bigger picture. All of our choices for our education are important to our futures, but what does it really mean in light of the eternal? For example, if you spend this year studying as hard as you can, yet still don't get your school finished, will God no longer use you? I can tell you for sure, that He still can and will. All this to say, results aren't always going to go the way we want. It's just a fact of life. Still, God will always use outcomes for His plan. Work as hard and as diligently as you can on your school and finding a college, and God picks out what happens." (I have great, solid best friends, huh?) :D

So this evening as I sit drinking my hot tea, listening to the rain patter against the window pane, and pouring my hear out in writing.... I am reminded of the words of the song that just came on- "I Look to You" by Selah:

"'Bout to lose my breath, there's no more fighting left. Sinking to rise no more, searching for that open door. And every road I'm taking, led to my regret. I don't know if I'm gonna make it. Nothing to do but lift my head. I look to You, I look to You. After all my strength is gone, in You I can be strong. I look to You, I look to You. And when melodies are gone- in You I hear a song. I look to You."

Let's finish this!

Go Class of 2014!!

Always in His Arms,

-Cayla



Friday, February 15, 2013

The Roller Coaster Never Ends....


Dear Readers,

Due to some recent developments at the Miller Homestead, I am discontinuing my Tournament Series until a later time. I will still post, but I don't have time to write about the tournaments, for the time being.

I told a friend the other day that whatever lesson God is trying to teach me- I just wish I would hurry and learn it. Then I started thinking about all of the lessons I've learned and how they lasted for exactly the right amount of time. I must admit, I felt guilty. I realized that Life, itself, is a lesson, and if I wish that the lesson was over then- I wish my life was at an end. In that moment I came to appreciate the lessons learned much more.

As I enter into this next season of my life- I know that there will be many changes in the next few months...but that's okay.  In the midst of the chaos is a Peace, Strength, and Rock that I know, I can always depend on.

May the Lord bless and keep you!

Always in His Arms,

-Cayla




Friday, January 11, 2013

I LIIIIIIIIVE!!!!

Dear Readers (if I have any left after all this time),

I am dreadfully sorry I haven't written in ages. Life has been....well...life...

I was talking to a friend not too long ago, and I said: "S___, you really should start a blog!" He said: "I would love to, but I have no time to blog......like someone else we all know...." I thought, "Okay! That does it! Where's my blog?!" 

I pulled the internet up on my computer, and sat staring at the cursor...blinking... It had been so long, I had forgotten my web address....

I do plan on continuing my tournament series. I am currently working on my NC Qually post. I thought, though, that perhaps I should reaffirm the fact that I am still taking in oxygen. 

The past 3 1/2 years really haven't been easy on my family or me. I find that writing really helps me. I have been stressed more than usual, lately. Ironically enough- I haven't been doing much writing lately, either. (No journaling [which technically isn't even a word], blogging, or creative writing.) I have been so busy with school, classes, working, debate, and speech (in and outside of NCFCA) that I really have neglected my music, writing, and helping with animals. Due to the fact that I can see a direct link in the drop of those activities and the rise of my stress I have determined to do something about it! So, be expecting more posts from me.... ;)

This past year has been full of ups and downs, it really has been a roller coaster ride. Looking back, I really don't see how anything else could have fit into our 2012. The trials we went through were many, but the great things that happened were even more. :) I feel so blessed, this year. Don't get me wrong, I always feel blessed...but this year was different. I, personally, learned so many lessons and grew spiritually as a result. I am so thankful to have met specific people this year that I know God put in my life to show me His Grace and Goodness. Remarkably, they all have been other teenagers with a Faith that I truly envy. 

On a lighter note, I am considering changing the "look" of my blog. It's a new year- time for a change...

I hope that each one of you have had a wonderful year with blessings abounding. But....of course you have...I am reminded of the song by Laura Story that says:

What if Your blessings come through raindrops? What if Your healing comes through tears? What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near? And what if trials of this life, are Your mercies in disguise?

Always in His Arms,

-Cayla


Wednesday, August 15, 2012

NCFCA Tournaments -- This is the time of our lives -- Don't take it for granted -- These memories will be with us forever!! -- Part II


Dear Readers,

I am terribly sorry it has been so long….but my, my, all that has been going on….

But as one person is apparently worried about whether the “blog has shut down”, emails me/comments/google+’s me, and “checks my blog first thing in the morning when he gets up” I thought I had better post before he has a heart attack…..

As I stated in my last post, each tournament is getting its own post. So, without further ado.....


TRIP #2

Our second tournament of the season, in March, was in Annandale, VA (right outside of DC) and was probably the most interesting tournament, for me, of the year.

This tournament, John Christian and I knew we would have fun, because the majority of the people we usually hang out with....weren't going to be there :P.......including our club. So that would make us kinda stretch ourselves to talk to new people! (Which I always love doing, anyway.) For various reasons, no one else in our club was going to that tournament. JC's parents couldn't go either. That left him, me, and my parents.

So we decided that all four of us would go together in our car. Now, for those of you who don't know, JC is about 6'4" and we have a car/SUV crossover. My dad is an expert car-loader. Reason being, he used to work in Charlotte at the airport loading the bellies of cargo planes. Which means, not only did everything have to fit, but the weight had to be distributed evenly. I've seen him work miracles when it comes to loading, and he's never doubted that he could get everything in a vehicle......until this trip....

By the time he got done loading our family's things in the car, it was completely full! I mean completely! Our backseat had been pushed forward as far as it would go, the back was full to the ceiling, and there was "stuff" in the backseat as well. My dad came in and said: "I hate to tell you, but John Christian better be wearing what he's got on every day to the tournament, and have no evidence...because I can't fit anything else in that car!!" Mama and I stared at each other both thinking..."What are we going to do???" Our main problem was a very large cooler. (You know, the kind that are so big they never should have been invented...) There were a few things that didn't need to go in the cooler, and by the time we ended up going through it we put everything in a cooler about 2/3 smaller than the previous one. Which helped quite a bit! We loaded everything back in while my dad was muttering: "It helped but I still don't see how I'm going to get his stuff in here..."

We went to out rendezvous point to pick up JC. We got there, and poor Daddy almost completely unloaded the car again...and somehow...I still have NO idea how...he got everything in there! (It took a bit of pushing and shoving by JC, his dad, and my dad.) :P We prayed before we left, and all piled into the car. When I say piled I mean piled. John Christian and I were so cramped in the backseat with all of our stuff it was crazy! He had about 6 sq in to put his feet down, and I had none. :P In the backseat we had 3 boxes of evidence, 2 backpacks, 1 purse, 2 totes, 1 pillow, 2 jackets, 1 atlas, a stack of cds, 3 laptops, a charger in the cigarette lighter (this one didn't smoke), a stack of 4 books, and 15 minutes into the trip we had briefs strewn out everywhere. It was madness! We had a whole seat in between us, but we felt like everything/everybody was sitting on top of each other.

By the way, did I mention that this was a 9 hour trip?

So after we did all of our piling, we started going through affirmative stuff. Which consisted of JC cross-exing me....that's always painful...I was so happy when we partnered just so there wouldn't be a chance of us hitting each other, and me having to go through one of his CXs.... ::rollseyes::

After a while we finished, and he asked to see my iPod. Now here is a running joke. I have an iPod Touch, and all of the guys in my club are obsessed with it. Partially because of that, JC has permission to get in my purse whenever he wants to. So every tournament we go to, I can never find my iPod because usually JC or FL or Miss EL (over at thoughtsjotstittles.blogspot.com) has it. (which is okay with me) :)

Anyway, he asked to see it and we ended up playing a word game together.....hahaha that was hilarious! In this game you have 6 letters and you have to guess as many words using those letters as possible. To move on to the next level you have to guess the word that uses all the letters, and you have a time limit that is ticking down the entire time. So here we are laying across backpacks in the seat between us, heads practically together, looking at this little screen hollering out random words. It sounded something like this: "Ring!" "NO! There's no 'g' or 'r'! But, I know! Fine!" "No, no, no, no, no!! I know what the 6 letter word is!!" "OH, oh, oh me too!! It's 'finance'! "O_o No!!! That's 7 letters, you're missing an 'n', it's 'Fiancé'!!!" "Oh! You're right!!!" "Hurry!! before the time runs out!!!" We had waaaay too much fun playing that! My parents said: "Do you think they're having fun, or are they about to kill each other???" Hahaha.

Next we stopped at a gas station to fill up and for a potty break. ;) Mama and I went on inside while the men stayed at the car to fill it up. As I walked inside I noticed a man beside the door smoking, and….teetering… :-/ I wanted to quickly go inside figuring that he was probably drunk. My mom was a few steps in front of me, enough that she had just gone inside. Right before I reached the door he got between me and it. He sorta circled me, looking me over from head to toe then gave me a big, sickening, almost-toothless grin. My mom was in the restroom, at this point and I figured it would be a good idea to find someone in my group to stay with, particularly my dad or John Christian. So, I squeezed past him and got in the store. About that time my mom came out of the restroom. I told her what had happened so we scanned the store to see if we saw him. Sure enough, he had come into the store too. Well I went into the restroom, and when I came out the men were standing there, too. We told them the story and after that I didn’t go into a service station without Daddy or JC. We climbed back into the car and dug for the cookies.

Now in all of that digging I made the statement that I was going to have to move some things, because I could not continue to sit on my legs for the rest of the trip! So, we rearranged the back seat, and I had a little spot to put my feet down on the floor. But, to have the spot, now I had a pile of “stuff” up against the door to the left of me. To the right of me, John Christian had to pile all of his “stuff” up. So I was in a sort of box.

A little later we stopped for lunch at......Wendy's!!! (It's our tourney restaurant.) That was a very interesting experience getting out of my “box,” but I managed to climb out of my door. My parents were then able to witness just how much JC eats. ;) We had a nice lunch, and the four of us had a great conversation discussing debate theory. (I promise, there are times that we really do talk about other things….I think…) Anyway, we finished and went back out to the car….and this is where my “box” started causing me problems… I opened the door and there was a wall of “stuff” (i.e. 2 debate boxes, 1 laptop, 2 totes, 1 sweatshirt, 1 pillow, a bag of food, a stack of cds, ect.). So I threw my purse over the “wall,” put one foot on the edge of the car, grabbed the inside of the door and started hoisting myself up and over. In the meantime, JC had gotten in on his side. My sunglasses were falling from the top of my head, so I told him to take them off of my head. He did and I looked up to see him wearing them….yep he was wearing my brown, trendy, rhinestone-studded sunglasses.  I got so tickled that I lost my hold and started falling taking everything with me. John Christian grabbed my hands and the stuff and, through a LOT of laughing and struggling, pulled me and the stuff the rest of the way in. xD It was hilarious!

After that, we took a nap. We had both been up till about 2:00 that morning and had gotten up around 5:00…needless to say we were pooped!

A couple hours later my parents attempted to wake us up for quite some time. But due to earbuds and music we didn’t know that. :P They finally got me awake and I managed to wake up JC. We were getting closer to where we needed the GPS (so we could find our host house). They had pulled the GPS out but it wasn’t working… -_- Of course it wasn’t… So after a few tries we finally got the address in JC’s iPhone, and we made it the rest of the way without any trouble.

We got to the house where we were host housing. We pulled in to see a 15 passenger van sitting in the driveway. (Don’t you just love homeschoolers!?) We went to the door and knocked and Mrs. H answered the door. We came in and were introduced to 8 children, both parents, and a grandmother. We were informed that the 9th child was out of state- but would be coming later that week. (Shall I say it again- don’t you just love homeschoolers!?) They were the nicest family! So we unloaded the car…..actually, let me rephrase that….Daddy, JC, and 3 of the H boys unloaded the car. They had rearranged what kids were sleeping in which bedrooms, so that I had a little room to myself with a mattress on the third floor, JC was on a couch on the fourth floor to himself, and my parents had a full bedroom with a double bed on the third floor.

Now the H Family had a piano in their living room. JC is one of the most avid pianists you'll ever meet. (And he's very good.) So, every day while we were there, he would play. One morning, we were ready before everyone else, so he played and we sang (in harmony) hymns together. That was so much fun!

Anyway, we went to sign in and script submission that night. This was my first time personally experiencing script submission. My script went through fine, thank goodness, and we got registered without any difficulty. We then went for some supper. We went to a gourmet pizza place. Let me tell you- they have some amazing pizza!

We got done there, went back to the H’s house, and got ready for bed. JC and I ended up staying up really late CXing each other some more. :P We went to bed, got up the next morning, got ready, and headed for the church. We got there, put our stuff in the student area and went to the sanctuary for announcements. And now, let’s rewind almost exactly a year…

Almost the exact same dates that we were in Annandale, VA in March of 2012, we were in Fredericksburg, VA in March of 2011. It was the second day of competition, and I was walking outside to watch Mr. JT give his HI (speech) in another building. It had started lightly drizzling so I was trying to hurry. I got to the door, and there was a guy in front of me. (I have no clue who it was and don’t remember him.) But he opened the door, turned around, made eye contact with me, walked into the building, and slammed the door in my face. (What is up with that?? Definitely not typical of NCFCA….?) Well I was standing there a little shocked and another guy walked over and said: “I don’t know who that was, but he’s a jerk. I’m sorry about that.” And then he opened the door for me. (See, gentlemen, still exist.) We ended up introducing ourselves and finding out that we were the same age, and from the same state. After that, I had no idea who he was, or what happened to him.

Now, let’s go forward a year, and step into 2012, once more. :) As I was walking out of the building with the student area to go to the building with the sanctuary, the same stinkin’ thing happened to me again!! A guy slammed the door in my face! Well, I was thinking: Déjà vu?. About that time, a guy opens the door for me, from the outside and says: “I don’t know who that was, but I’m sorry.” I walked through and thanked him. Then did a double-take…..everthing came back….Whoa! Wasn’t that the same guy?! I said: “T________?! T_______ G_______?!” He said: “Cayla?!” (Apparently he remembered, too.) Well it turns out it was the same guy. :P (What are the odds?) John Christian walked over and I introduced him, and then Mr. TG (over at http://tgoodwinblog.blogspot.com/) introduced his partner Mr. SP. Now, starting at that tournament we all became good friends, and hung out at a lot at the tourneys. :)

Announcements went well, and we came back in the student area to wait for postings. Debate postings went up and we debated our first round. We had a lot of fun! :D After the round was over I was stepping off of the elevator when I heard: “Cayla! Cayla Miller!” I saw a hand waving above the crowd. I knew that voice all too well! I ran over and saw Mr. JA!! My best friend- that is a guy. :D I said “J_____ it’s so good to see you! And stuck out my hand. He said: “Seriously? A hand shake?” And gave me a big hug. Now it just so happens that he goes to school (college) near there, is a homeschool/NCFCA alum, and they were on spring break. So he came to the tournament to judge. :) (I did know that he was coming before he came.) I hadn’t seen him in a year and one month.

That night we came back to the H Family’s house and the K Family came back from the tournament with us, as well. :) So, are you following this? You want to know how many people we had in one house? We had three families for a grand total of……ready for this?.......23 people, in one house… :P We had a ball! xD Three homeschool families living together- is wonderful! So when the Ks got there, we switched around the sleeping arrangement again. :P It worked out well. :)

The second night after competition we all came back to the house. And it was voted that everyone would do their speeches for everyone else. We had the best time doing that! Everyone’s speeches were so good!
Mr. JA ended up coming with his roommate all three days, and we got to hang out and talk, which was a ton of fun! :)

The entire tournament was a blast! I got to spend time with JC, Mr. JA, Mr. SP, Mr. TG, Mr. GL, and Miss JP! :D (TP is male-dominated…lol) I ended up breaking in my speech, and qualifying to Regionals! (Which was a huge shock!) Debate went very well too! :)

We got back to the house after the awards ceremony and spent the night at the H’s house one last time. We got up the next morning (Sunday) and (through a lot of perseverance) packed the car again. :P

On our ride home we discussed a lot of things related to debate and the tournament. And watched one of the rounds from that tourney. And slept….a lot. :P

Overall, this was probably my favorite qualifier! I had so much fun with everyone, and was tremendously blessed!

Again, I’ve attached my favorite pictures from this tourney at the end of this post. Check them out! :)

Check in (hopefully) soon for…

Trip #3! Gastonia, NC. We’re on “Home Turf”! And everyone is here! :D

Always in His Arms,

-Cayla














Friday, May 18, 2012

NCFCA Tournaments-- This is the time of our lives -- Don't take it for granted -- These memories will be with us forever! -- Part I

Dear Readers,
So, when I told you that I would be updating on many happenings at the Miller Homestead- one of the things I told you I would post about is funny tournament stories. This post as well as the next three will be devoted to these stories. Each tournament will receive it own post. :)

So far John Christian (my debate partner) and I have been to one tournament in January, two tournaments in March, and one tournament in April. Not to mention I have one more tournament coming up in June. Needless to say, it's been a very full spring semester. We have traveled almost every month to Virginia! (Hahaha! The things you do for speech and debate...)

These trips have typically been between 7 and  9 hours.....on trips that long, with a group of teenagers, many things can happen..........

TRIP #1

The first tournament, in January, was in Norfolk, VA. That trip we went up in two mini vans. We had Mrs. C and Mrs. P in one van with Miss AC, Miss SP, and a little brother. In the other van we had Mrs. B; then the rest of the teenagers- Mr. FL, Mr. RB, John Christian, and me. Soooooo yeah, I was in the guys van....(how gross is that??) ;)

On the way up we got into many arguments (as we normally do, we all love each other that much :P). But the main argument was the principles/definitions of dating v. courtship....boy that was an interesting one thanks to Mr. RB... It all started because I was sitting in my little seat (having just finished knitting) reading my little book I had brought with me...Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship. (The sequel to Josh Harris' I Kissed Dating Good-Bye.)

Well after John Christian and I kept a fist fight from almost breaking out between RB and FL (not literally, but it was getting heated) we stopped at a rest stop right over the NC/VA line. We all got out of our two mini vans (quite stiff) and used the rest room/got snacks/stretched. (Well, the girls stretched. The guys decided to run up and down the hill, climb trees, do push ups on the sidewalk, and pull ups on the bathroom stalls.) After everyone had finished their, um, ::cough:: exercises- we all got back into the mini vans and were about to drive off, when Mrs. C had the horrid realization that we were missing her son (the little brother). What a worse feeling than losing an 11 year old boy at a strange rest stop?! We all got back out to look for him. The guys found him a few minutes later, where they had left him, in the rest room. ::rollseyes:: Good job guys... :P

We got back in the vans and had been driving about an hour when, while I was knitting (I had decided it would perhaps be best if the book went back in my bag), I smelled something funny. I turned around to see RB's head SMOKING! Trying not to scream where Mrs. B would swerve off the road, I said: "John Christian!" As if on cue, he immediately turned and unplugged a laptop charger adapter plugged into the cigarette lighter. (It was right behind RB's head and was smoking, that's why it appeared that RB's head was smoking :P) That adapter was not plugged back in for the rest of trip....

After we got past that minor calamity we drove a few hours more and stopped at Wendy's for supper. After the girls had eaten all we wanted we gave our leftovers to the "dispose-alls" (aka John Christian and FL) and went on our way.

We finally got to Norfolk without anymore trouble, and arrived at Script Submission on time. The boys went on in, and I stayed behind to walk in with the girls. The girls started looking for their scripts, and couldn't find them. When suddenly they realized that they had packed them IN their suitcases. Sooo, there we were three teenage girls, at 8:00 at night, in downtown Norfolk, in the parking lot of the Federal Credit Union, with the back of the van open, two suitcases on the ground open, digging through t-shirts, socks, and underwear trying to find the folder with the scripts in them!

After we found the scripts, we went in to submit the speech scripts. Every one's went fine....until we got to the girls' scripts...SP's printer had apparently decided to print their duo script in dark green instead of black. AC's script had apparently the wrong citation formatting. The duo script was accepted anyway (thank goodness) but the Persuasive (AC's) script had to be changed. Now, being the nerdy debater I am, I normally bring a small printer with me for emergency printing. That poor printer had seen so many 64 page briefs run through it that it had finally conked out on us....so no printer... AC had her computer, with her script, but no printer. Script Submission said "have it fixed and printed by tomorrow morning, or no competition". We hoped that the hotel had a printer we could use.

So, at that point it was 9:00 and we were dragging ourselves into the hotel we were staying in. We checked in and had three rooms right beside each other. Everyone picked their rooms (two girls rooms, one boy room). As soon as I started bringing "stuff" into our room, I immediately recognized the smell of nicotine- despite the fact that this was a "no-smoking-room". Being severely allergic, we had to trade rooms with the guys. Which meant taking everything out of one room, and putting in the other, and vice versa. That hall was cramped, plus we had two carts parked outside of our doors, which made it even tighter. I think they were about to kill me, and rightly so, considering that they were doing the majority of the moving. Sorry guys! (We were still looking for stuff in each others' rooms the last day.)

Once we got settled Mrs. B went downstairs to the Lobby to see what was to be done about poor AC's script being printed. She, in the meantime, was in her room working like a mad-man so very patiently changing her entire citation format. Mrs. B came back up to inform us that the hotel had no printer available for customer use. On top of that, they said they didn't have a printer, at all. Mrs. C and AC called Dr. C (AC's dad) and he looked up the closest Staples (I think) and told them how to get there. Now that it was about 10:00, of course they were closed. After AC finished re-formatting her speech she downloaded it onto my flash drive, and the next day before competition, they were able to go to Staples and have it printed.

Now, I know what you're thinking....nothing else could possibly go wrong for these people...I assure you, for PSSDC, it absolutely can!

We got up the next morning (first day of competition) to find that RB's cold had returned, and he was pretty sick. Not only that, but FL had forgotten his suit jacket. Thank the Lord that John Christian and FL are the same size, and one competes only in debate, and the other only in speech...they were able to share John Christian's jacket.

Later that day, Mrs. B went to the drug store to get some medicine for RB, because he was so sick. The druggist asked for his birthday. Poor Mrs. B was so stressed and frazzled that (having 5 boys) she couldn't remember out of two birthdays, which one was his. (Which made the druggist wonder about these unsocialized homeschoolers...) She finally settled on one (which happened to be the wrong one) and got the medicine. For the rest of the tournament RB was so stopped up, he couldn't hear a thing! He was very miserable, and we all felt very sorry for him. :(

The second day of competition, I woke up....sick. (I know you don't believe me, but it's true!) I was so sick I could hardly talk, much less speak. I had a terrible cough, and could not breathe even a little bit. Now, remember this a speech and debate tournament....the whole purpose is to speak. So there was me and RB as sick as you could ever want anyone to be... Together, we lived on cough drops! I really don't know what I would have done without him! There was one very crucial debate round I was going into, and had forgotten my cough drops. I ran back to the student area and started frantically looking for my bag of cough drops. I couldn't find them! I was going to be late for my debate round, and this was out-rounds! (You can not be late for out-rounds.) So, RB was sitting there and (coughing his head off) he gave me his bag of cough drops. Now, you have to understand here, he was sicker than I was, and he gave me his only bag of cough drops! He had to go for a full hour and a half without his cough drops! I don't know how I would have made it without them! (Thanks, RB!!! I know you read my blog.) :D

I forgot to mention that the first day of competition SP had also come down with a bad cough. (Lord help us!) 

Now the last day of competition I woke up and said: "Mrs. B? I haven't been this sick in a long time! I need help! I literally can not breathe...at all!!" I was so scared at this point. Every breath was such a struggle. I couldn't talk, I had absolutely no voice. My tournament mommies, Mrs. B and Mrs. P, were so wonderful they just took care of me, and did everything in the world you could imagine to loosen all of that in my chest. (When your own mom/dad can't go to a tournament, we kids call the mom/dad who took us, our "tournament parent".) ;) When we finally got to the tournament that morning, a little late for annoucments- thanks to me, I sat down in the pew next to my debate partner, and he made it very clear that if I was too sick to debate then he would go to the tournament director to say that we forfeited all further rounds. :-O These tournaments mean a lot to him, and he just said he was willing to forfeit for a runny nose?! Haha! (You guys know what I mean.) I assured him that no matter how sick I was, I was going to debate!

Now let's rewind a bit to the day before we were supposed to leave for this tournament....

I had finished packing all of my suits, food, and (most importantly) evidence for the tournament. I did need to talk to my debate partner about one minor change in our affirmative case. I had texted him and asked him to give me a call, when he could. He replied that he needed to talk to me as well, but it would be very late since he had a basketball game that night (which I had totally forgotten about). I said that was fine, not to worry about the time, but to just call me when he could. Later that night at about 10:00 I got a text from him saying that something had happened in the game, and to brace myself. I was thinking: "Oh no! What has happened to him!?". He then went on to tell me that during the game, in an attempt to block, one of the guys on the other team had intentionally elbowed him in the mouth...so hard, it knocked him to the floor. Now, John Christian has braces- so quite a few teeth were lose, one was hanging in there because of the braces, one brace had been knocked off, and his lip was cut. Not to mention his whole mouth was swollen, and he was in a lot of pain! He said he didn't know what he was going to do, but somehow he was going to speak at that tournament. About half an hour later, I got a call from his mother. She had talked to his dad, and he had told her that I had better be informed of the situation. I told her that he had texted me, and I did know what was going on. She said the game had been a couple hours away, and it would be awhile before he got home. She also said that she was going to take him in for an emergency orthodontist appointment the next morning, where hopefully they would fix him up, and he would be able to leave that same day for Norfolk, VA. Let me tell you, that night some serious praying went on at the Miller Homestead. I was more worried about him than the tournament. From what his mom had told me, it did not look good. At about midnight, I decided I might as well go ahead and lay down, when they called me (which they had promised) they'd called me. So, surprisingly enough, I fell asleep rather quickly. At about 1:00 a.m. my cell rang, it was John Christian! I had to really listen to hear what he was saying, considering that the right side of his mouth was about 3 times its normal size. We talked slow and got through what we needed. (Both of us praying inside that the orthodontist would be able to patch him up!) The next day he texted me and said he was going in for his visit, and to pray! Half an hour later he texted me and said he was out and the doctor had fixed everything! (Now his lip was still cut and swollen.) We were all so very thankful! Prayers had been answered, once again!

Ok......so! The troubles we had still are not over! Haha!

For about a month before that tournament my mother had been sick, I mean REALLY sick! We're still not totally sure what it was, but we think it was probably the flu. This whole time she had been saying she was going to go with us to this tournament. Of course, she ended up not being able to go, so I spent the the 2 days before we left racking my brains trying to think of a way to get John Christian and me down to Hickory! Thank goodness for Mrs. W! I don't know what we would have done. She picked me up, drove all the way down the mountain, picked up my debate partner, and took us on to Hickory! She was a saint!

Now, let's fast forward back to the actual tournament. By human standards that tournament should have been awful! We all should have been miserable, ready to give up, at each other's throats, and in general having a terrible weekend. But you see, we weren't operating on human standards, oh no, we were operating on God's standards! Our little group of 10 was surrounded by prayer. Despite all of the hardships most of us broke in our events. Despite the fact that AC's script had been wrong, she won Persuasive. Despite the fact that RB was terribly sick, he broke with his Humorous. And despite the fact, that according to any medical doctor John Christian and I shouldn't have been able to speak (due to a busted mouth and no voice) we broke, and during all of our rounds while we were speaking you couldn't tell that a thing was wrong with either one of us! Not to mention that we all had a lot of fun! God was at work in our little group, and He still is!

Soli Deo Gloria! May we Praise Him when we Win and May we Praise Him when we Lose!

There are many more stories I could tell you from this trip....but, well....those are just between me and our club...and they'll stay that way... ;) (Some of them are a wee bit embarrassing...)

At the bottom of this post, I have posted a few of my favorite pictures from this tournament. Check them out! :)

Check in again for a continuation of Tournament Stories!

Next time....

Trip # 2- Annandale, VA! 4 people in a little car. First time host housing. Meeting two people who become great friends. A  friend visits from PHC. And much, much more!

Always in His Arms,

-Cayla












Tuesday, May 15, 2012

"To Provide For the Common Defense"




Dear Readers,

I find my mind dwelling a lot on the military, lately.... Perhaps, because as a homeschooler I have friends who are older and younger than me, and many of the young men I know are leaving or have already left to serve their country.

I find myself using military lingo now. :P I am now caught in the midst of branch rivalry. What is the best branch? Which is more honorable? Which is tougher? Who will prepare you better for special ops? ;) (Yes, that was just for you AP.) Considering that, at the moment, I know young men in/going into the Marines, Navy, and Air Force there is a lot of rivalry with these guys trying to get me to admit that their branch is better. ;) (Although, I have to say, I've always stood by Marines...that's not gonna change, sorry guys...)

To think I should live to see the day when I am wishing some of my closest friends good-bye, and as they walk away wondering: "Will I ever see them again?".

I am so very proud to know so many wonderful, strong young men willing to stand up and fight for Liberty, to fight for the Honor of their country. My heart swells with pride when I see someone in uniform. My heart soars to know that these young men are willing to put their life on the line to insure that me and my children's Rights remain unhindered by outside invasion.

And yet...I am forced to live with the fact that though I am proud of them there is also the sadness of being a young woman left behind to wonder if they will return home. The sadness of knowing that their childhood is over; that my childhood is over. That we have now grown so much that we are old enough to tell each other good-bye and go our separate ways in life. That now I'm no  longer at the age where I attend a funeral of a young soldier who's life was cut short and ask a young woman sitting on the pew what he was like. But am now at the age where everyday I pray to God that that's not me sitting on the pew telling the child what he was like when we were growing up. 

I know that this is a melancholy post but its something that has been on my mind for about a year now, and I had to get it out.

So, tonight, please say a special prayer for all of our service men and women; and that God would bring them safely back to their families' and friends' loving arms...

May God bless our country! And may we never take for granted what those before us have fought and died to protect!

Always In His Arms,

-Cayla